D.I.Y. Coping Skills, DBT: Distress Tolerance, Inner Renovations Project

Wise Mind A.C.C.E.P.T.S.

DBT Skills Training Module: Distress Tolerance

The Wise Mind A.C.C.E.P.T.S. skills provides valuable strategies in an easy to remember acronym to help tolerate stressful moments and navigate difficult emotions. By engaging in activities, contributing to others, practicing gratitude, and managing thoughts in simple ways, you can enhance well-being.

A – ACTIVITIES

Participate in activities that keep you interested and help you feel healthy, engaged, and productive.

C – CONTRIBUTE

Shift attention away from yourself by doing something meaningful for others. Volunteer, find a cause that is important to you, and be a blessing to someone else.

C – COMPARISONS

Count your blessings and consider times that were even more challenging. You overcame those and this too shall pass. Consider others that are less fortunate and what you can learn from your circumstances.

E – EMOTIONS

Be intentional about shifting your emotions. Watch a comedy and laugh if you are feeling down. Notice how hard it is to stay angry when you put on music, dance, and smile!

P – PUSHING AWAY

Sometimes, it’s necessary to block and not entertain negative thoughts, situations, people, or feelings. 

T – THOUGHTS

Replace unwanted thoughts with more pleasant and productive ones.  Do something that requires you to use the thinking function differently, like: imagining your successful future,  reading a book, reciting song lyrics in your mind, doing a crossword puzzle.

S – SELF SOOTHE WITH THE 5 SENSES

Become more present and focused in the moment by engaging your senses: listen to music, feel warm water, taste delicious fruit, view beautiful photography of nature, inhale essential oils from a diffuser.


Reference:Linehan, M.M. (2015). DBT Skills Training Manual (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.

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