Nobody is perfect. This isn't news. Yet, when we make mistakes, we hold ourselves to the most ridiculous standards of perfection. As if you're never supposed to feel awkward, or have an embarrassing moment, or mess up really really badly sometimes. If people could hear the way you talk to yourself in your head, I… Continue reading Surprise, You’re Human
Love, Closer Than It Seems
It is possible to be looking so hard for something that you actually look right past it, right through it, and don’t recognize when it is right in front of you. This happens sometimes in the world of dating and when seeking a partner. You may have criteria that your “ideal” partner is supposed to… Continue reading Love, Closer Than It Seems
Nothing to Fear
It is too much energy to be afraid. Hiding from others, hiding from our problems, and hiding from ourselves is exhausting work. When we think about it, what is so intimidating about facing reality? The worst thing that can happen to us is that we expose our vulnerabilities; the best thing that can happen to… Continue reading Nothing to Fear
Tough Times Make Us Tougher
The toughest days are the most meaningful. They are tests of our strength. On these days we get a front row seat to what we’re really made of. Until we face trials, our ability is in theory, because no one really knows what they would do in a situation until they are in it. So… Continue reading Tough Times Make Us Tougher
When We Were Super Heroes
Dig deep and find that “S” emblem that you used to wear on your chest. Supermen and Superwomen must rediscover themselves through the eyes of their childhood. Only from this place will there be a rejuvenation of the pure hope and uncut faith that is needed to reach the new goals that you will begin setting for yourself. Move forward with the idea that what you want is already a part of your destiny; and all you must do is travel the path to reach your already blessed future.
Speaking With a Spoon Full of Sugar
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. We’ve heard this all our lives, yet we still attempt to get what we want by making demands, using guilt trips, and expressing ourselves in a manipulative manner as if that is going to consistently get us what we want in life. Maybe it works… Continue reading Speaking With a Spoon Full of Sugar
How To Not: Make Emotional Decisions
Decision-making seems like such a basic skill. However, we sometimes do not think things all the way through. The results can be catastrophic or at least cause a setback if we make decisions while we are emotional. Our brains actually function differently when it is overwhelmed with negative emotions such as fear, frustration, anger, anxiety,… Continue reading How To Not: Make Emotional Decisions
Re-Establish Yourself in Love
Over the years, you may have noticed that many changes have occurred in the way that you see things, do things, and the way that you feel. This could be attributed to maturity, or the natural changes that occur with time. However, if we look carefully enough, we may see that some of the changes… Continue reading Re-Establish Yourself in Love
Personal Peace is a Super Power
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MilgVZ5EA98 There are a lot of things that we are taught during the early years of our lives under the guise that they are important to know for our success as human beings. However, I can’t remember the last time an algebraic formula saved my life. I would have appreciated a class on “How to… Continue reading Personal Peace is a Super Power
Heart Be Healed. From Pain to Empowered.
You are stronger now and you can choose not to hurt anymore. Whatever it is that you’ve been through doesn’t have power over you as of now. Decide that this is the moment that you will embrace the freshness of the day, and allow your heart, spirit and mind to be healed by a Power… Continue reading Heart Be Healed. From Pain to Empowered.