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Self-Respect: F.A.S.T.

The DBT skill of Self-Respect Effectiveness, encapsulated by "F.A.S.T.," aids individuals in maintaining integrity and self-worth in interactions. It emphasizes fairness, mindful apologies, consistency with values, and honest communication. By applying these principles, one can foster authentic relationships and cultivate a profound sense of self-respect and worthiness.

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Relationships: GIVE

The "G.I.V.E." skill in DBT fosters healthy relationships by promoting gentleness, interest, validation, and an easy manner during conversations. This empathetic approach nurtures connection and trust, allowing individuals to communicate effectively while balancing personal needs with respect for others. Practicing these skills enhances both relationships and self-respect.

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Awareness Exercises

DBT Skills Training Module: Distress Tolerance The DBT Distress Tolerance skill Awareness Exercises is a grounding practice that helps you focus on the environment around you to manage stress and reduce anxiety. When emotions feel overwhelming, shifting your attention outward can help you find stability and stay anchored in the present moment. This skill involves intentionally noticing… Continue reading Awareness Exercises

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Willingness vs. Willfulness

Find the Willingness to Act with Wise Mind. Take note of when you are assuming a Willing vs. Willful posture towards situations.

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Observe the Breath, Half-Smile

DBT Skills Training Module: Distress Tolerance The DBT Distress Tolerance skill Observe the Breath, Half-Smile is a calming practice that helps you ground yourself in the present moment. It starts with focusing on your breath, specifically paying attention to how it feels as it enters and exits the tip of your nose. By tuning into this subtle… Continue reading Observe the Breath, Half-Smile

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I.M.P.R.O.V.E. the Moment

This is a self-compassionate approach to managing distress through the I.M.P.R.O.V.E. the Moment DBT Skill. By using imagination, finding meaning, practicing prayer and relaxation, you can encourage growth and healing while taking care of yourself in a mindful way.

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Troubleshoot Emotion Regulation

DBT Skills Training Module: Emotion Regulation The DBT skill Troubleshoot Emotion Regulation encourages flexibility and persistence when managing intense emotions. Not every skill will work perfectly in every situation, and that’s okay. This skill involves practicing willingness to alternate between different strategies if one isn’t as effective in the moment. For example, if distraction doesn’t help, you… Continue reading Troubleshoot Emotion Regulation

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Manage Extreme Emotions

DBT Skills Training Module: Emotion Regulation The DBT skill Manage Extreme Emotions is a powerful approach to staying grounded when emotions feel overwhelming. It begins with mindfulness—observing and describing your current emotional experience without judgment. By identifying what you’re feeling and naming it, you create a sense of distance from the emotion, making it easier to respond… Continue reading Manage Extreme Emotions

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Let Go of Emotional Suffering

DBT Skills Training Module: Emotion Regulation The DBT skill Let Go of Emotional Suffering teaches us the transformative power of acceptance. At its core, this skill is about acknowledging the things in life that cannot be changed while focusing on what can be. By practicing acceptance, we free ourselves from the ongoing emotional pain that comes from… Continue reading Let Go of Emotional Suffering

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Cope Ahead

DBT Skills Training Module: Emotion Regulation The DBT skill Cope Ahead is a proactive strategy for managing difficult situations by imagining yourself skillfully navigating them before they even happen. This skill involves visualizing the upcoming challenge, identifying potential obstacles, and mentally rehearsing how you will use effective coping strategies to manage your emotions and actions. By practicing… Continue reading Cope Ahead