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Self-Respect: F.A.S.T.

The DBT skill of Self-Respect Effectiveness, encapsulated by "F.A.S.T.," aids individuals in maintaining integrity and self-worth in interactions. It emphasizes fairness, mindful apologies, consistency with values, and honest communication. By applying these principles, one can foster authentic relationships and cultivate a profound sense of self-respect and worthiness.

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Relationships: GIVE

The "G.I.V.E." skill in DBT fosters healthy relationships by promoting gentleness, interest, validation, and an easy manner during conversations. This empathetic approach nurtures connection and trust, allowing individuals to communicate effectively while balancing personal needs with respect for others. Practicing these skills enhances both relationships and self-respect.

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Turning the Mind

The DBT Distress Tolerance skill, Turn the Mind, emphasizes the importance of accepting reality, even when emotions urge resistance. By consciously practicing acceptance, individuals reduce suffering and gain clarity. This persistent effort builds emotional resilience, allowing one to face challenges with strength while fostering mindfulness and self-compassion.

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Radical Acceptance

Radical Acceptance is a powerful DBT skill that encourages individuals to embrace reality without judgment. Acknowledging the truth of painful situations allows for healing and growth. By letting go of resistance and accepting life's complexities, one can find peace and freedom from suffering, even amidst joy and pain.

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Willingness vs. Willfulness

Find the Willingness to Act with Wise Mind. Take note of when you are assuming a Willing vs. Willful posture towards situations.

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I.M.P.R.O.V.E. the Moment

This is a self-compassionate approach to managing distress through the I.M.P.R.O.V.E. the Moment DBT Skill. By using imagination, finding meaning, practicing prayer and relaxation, you can encourage growth and healing while taking care of yourself in a mindful way.

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Self-Soothe with 5 Senses

This DBT Skill encourages using the five senses to self-soothe during stressful moments. By engaging with vision, hearing, smell, taste, and touch, individuals can foster mindfulness, grounding, and emotional resilience. Reflecting on personal preferences can enhance the application of these soothing techniques.

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Manage Extreme Emotions

DBT Skills Training Module: Emotion Regulation The DBT skill Manage Extreme Emotions is a powerful approach to staying grounded when emotions feel overwhelming. It begins with mindfulness—observing and describing your current emotional experience without judgment. By identifying what you’re feeling and naming it, you create a sense of distance from the emotion, making it easier to respond… Continue reading Manage Extreme Emotions

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9 Essential Self-Care Tips to Stay Grounded During a Stressful Election Season

'Tis the season to be inundated with unsolicited text messages urging you to select their candidate of choice. Campaign ads lack decorum and seem to focus more on insulting the opponent than inspiring the public. Taking good care of yourself is always important; and it is especially necessary during a stressful election season as we find ourselves in now. The following 9 Essential Self-Care Tips will help you stay grounded during this time and beyond.

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Be Authentic, even when misunderstood.

Be willing to clarify what is misunderstood. Other times, be willing to be misunderstood. And sometimes, accept there will be people and situations you may not understand. At all times, be respectful to yourself and others as you continue making efforts to live an authentic life.